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Multicultural
(Newsletter #12.01.06)
Greetings to all our readers!
Having been raised in America's
Midwest, I was struck by a recent article on the value of physical
touching. In the conservative community of my youth, people did not touch
each other...similar to what I have learned is common in many Asian and
Anglo societies. Touching was appropriate only if on intimate terms with a
person, such as in families and with close friends and—even then—with
limits. When I lived in Europe I observed that other societies
(particularly Italian, French, Hispanic and some Middle Eastern) touched
each other much more often to express their feelings. Since my return to
the States I've noticed, too, that friends and associates from other
countries are much more likely to embrace. Now, new research from the
University of Missouri-Columbia has demonstrated that touching is good for
you...even the simple act of petting an animal "releases a cascade of
feel-good hormones in humans, including serotonin and oxytocin." Culture
seems to be the culprit, according to Janet Kahn, Ph.D., a medical
sociologist at the University of Vermont: "We live in a tactophobic
culture, one that is very low-touch compared with many others....Our skin is
our largest sense organ, and we ignore it incredibly in this culture." So,
go out and get a massage or hug a friend...you'll feel better! Business people are advised to create and build their brand image. Recently experts advised America's business community on cross-cultural branding, with Japan as an example. Japan's leading business newspaper, The Nikkei, sponsored a seminar on the topic and here were some of the experts' recommendations:
"Knowing your audience" is key in
all successful ventures. As speaker, trainer and consultant, we continually
strive to demonstrate through our work and products how we understand those
in our marketplace and can provide what will help them in their own
environments. Being Bicultural "A bicultural upbringing is a rich but imperfect thing,"
so says Pulitzer-winning writer Jhumpa Lahiri. Many second or
third-generation children of immigrants would empathize with that
statement. Lahiri describes her life of transitions, beginning with her
early years as the child of Indian parents growing up in Rhode Island (when
she felt extreme pressure to be loyal to the old world and fluent in the
new). As she grew and developed she constantly worked at coming to terms
with the often conflicting standards of her parents' world and the American
one in which she was living. Only now has she found the term
"Indian-American" to be generally accepted, without explanation. As she
approaches middle-age she has concluded: "The immigrant's journey, no
matter how ultimately rewarding, is founded on departure and deprivation,
but it secures for the subsequent generation a sense of arrival and
advantage." The recent celebration of
International Women's Day brought to our attention an anthology of
contributions from young women all over the world (Imagining Ourselves,
New World Library). The energy and aspirations of 105 young women from
57 countries are captured complete with illustrations, giving rise to
increasing hope for them and their peers worldwide. These optimistic views
mirror examples in my own encounters, from a beautiful young Muslim chemist
raised in the Netherlands, to a lovely African-American speech teacher, to a
gracious Filipino caregiver, to a Polish entrepreneur, etc...all express
optimism through hard work and loving attitudes toward those around them.
There are still many societies that suppress female initiatives but, like a
billowing balloon squeezed at one point, their irrepressible spirit will pop
out in another place. Such is the gift of life...and let it flourish. Age Advances Do you have trouble estimating how old people are by their
appearance? When I think back about how people over age 50 looked when I
was a child, I'm amazed at the change. Now an 80-year old can pass for 60,
etc. Medical advances, coupled with improved diet and exercise practices,
have resulted in a large over-50 population that is raring to go! The
impact of such demographic advances is being felt throughout society,
including the workplace (companies are often reluctant to lose that
education and experience). While the exuberance and ingenuity of youth are
still welcome, we are learning to join these forces to create an ever more
inclusive world where everyone's abilities are valued. Together, a stronger
more vital society can emerge to meet the increasing challenges of life in
the 21st Century. Let us hear from you! Judith Starkey
"He
who loses wealth loses much; he who loses a friend loses more; but he that
loses his courage loses all." We welcome your comments. Let us know what additional topics you would like to see addressed and if you know someone who might also be interested…we’ll contact them promptly. Copyright
© 2006
The Starkey Group, Inc.
All Rights Reserved. Originally published March 2006.
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